There’s only one secret you need to know to have the amazing wedding you’re dreaming of: DO WHAT YOU WANT!
You were probably expecting a long and detailed list of secrets, but it’s that simple!
Before you even start planning, ask yourself, who’s the wedding for?
The focus should be on you and your spouse.
Yes, your friends, family and so many others in your circle may have a strong opinion over how your wedding should go, what you should do and not do, and a long list of some other things. You love them all and probably don’t want to hurt their feelings, so it’s easy to get swayed and confused. However, you must remember, it’s you and your partners day! Everyone is coming together to celebrate you, not the other way round. (We don’t mean to sound cheeky, but then, it’s your day!)
Let’s talk about the first issue. You can’t make everyone happy. It’s just the way it is, so worry about making yourselves happy instead. If on your wedding day you’re glowing with joy and you’re having the time of your life, this will radiate to everyone around you.
Bear in mind that you may have to compromise on certain things, but be really careful with this. If you compromise with each person, before you realize it, you’ll have a mixture of everyone else’s wedding rather than your own.
Approach your big day with this mindset- you and your spouse are reason everyone is gathered to celebrate, without you both as a couple, there simply won’t be a wedding so do what makes you happy without having regrets!
