There’s more to keeping a marriage secure and healthy than being consistently happy and giddy, and it’s understanding this first that is most important. It is not just based on physical or financial attraction but on how couples interact emotionally.
But what is the secret? What holds couples together and makes them feel truly happy and satisfied?
Several habits make relationships last a long time. Communication, (verbal and non verbal) is one of these habits and tops the list.
Let us take a look at some habits of emotionally wealthy couples and what keeps their relationship going strong and intact:
They Appreciate Each Other
Who does not like to have their efforts acknowledged? Certainly, no one!
Appreciation is the soil on which long-lasting relationships and marriage thrive. If your partner feels unappreciated, they will develop feelings of resentment, and this will impact the relationship negatively when it comes out unexpectedly. Appreciation can be through acknowledging even small deeds to foster progressive trends.
They Are Affectionate
Making small gestures of love towards your partner is necessary to maintain a long-lasting relationship. If you are loving, your partner will be sure that you care even about the simple things concerning them.
This will make them feel valued and happy.
They Communicate
Emotionally wealthy couples expressly communicate their needs to each other. Neither partner hopes that the other one magically decodes what their needs are.
The key to good communication in a relationship is to lovingly get the message across in a direct, honest, and clear way and avoid long-winding statements. Active listening is also important, but not just listening. Responding is equally important. It is vital to avoid many topics at once and just focus on one at a time.
They Show Empathy
This has to do with communicating with understanding.
When your partner makes a complaint, express that you can understand why they’re frustrated. If they’re happy about something that happened at work, share in their excitement. We feel loved when we feel heard and understood.
They Discuss Stress
Although people tend to isolate themselves when stressed, it is good to talk it out with someone, and for spouses, doing it with their partners is a great idea. Voicing out whatever is stressing you works miracles and is even better when you air it to your partner who understands you best, can listen to you, and offers you the support you need. Couples get closer when they discuss stress-reducing issues, and it allows them to smile and strengthen their love.
The above list is not exhaustive because many other habits make couples have long and fulfilling relationships. What matters most is for each partner to feel that the other one cares for them, appreciates them, and loves them so that they can count on them.
Are you in an emotionally wealthy relationship with your partner?
